Buyer's Remorse Or SN

They say
" Nadi moola kandhidibahudu, samudrada aala kandhidbahudu aadre naari mansnalli yenide anta yaru kandhidyakagalla"
Roughly translates to :
" You can find the origin of a river, measure the depths of the Ocean but you can never understand whats on a woman's mind"

Even after studying the Venusian arts and practicing it for so many days.. this mystery seems to deepen.

Anyways, it was an awesome day3. I was supposed to meet her up at 7 in the evening. I land up in a friend's house (nearby to her house from where I was supposed to pick her up) at about 6:45. About 6:50 my mobile buzzes off.

Drake: Hey hi all set.
HBD : Hey hi.... hmmm (seemed to be a bit hesitant. Symptoms of Flake-itis)
Drake : ..................... ( Silence .. the weapon of mass destruction :-)
HBD : Actually u know what... I was mentioning to you that I had invitation for this party which I was thinking of not attending. The host called me up half an hour back and personally invited me. Now I have to go.
Drake : (taking it very lightly) ......... hmmm ok. (completely unaffected and neutral tonality)
HBD : Where are you right now ?
Drake : Just 5 minutes away from your home (Pause, pause pause ) But it's not a matter. I have this friend of mine staying near by. I will visit him we will chill over some beers. So don't you worry. Enjoy your party. (Neutral tone)
HBD : hmmm..... (silence... can tell that she is really feeling bad for flaking on me at the nth moment )
Drake : .................
HBD : Hey, I really want to meet you at-least for 15-20 minutes. How have you come ?
Drake : I am with my girl... unicorn.
HBD : Cool, come down to my place. We can meet up for about half an hour or so.
Drake : hmmm ... Ok sure.

I land up near her house. She's in a pair of blue denims and a red top.... as usual looking highly cool.
Drake : Hi cutie. Hop on, we are going for a long drive.
She hops on my bike. I ask her how much time she has... she says not to bother and leave her back when she tells to.

Now at this point I was preparing to my open up my Kino bag. I have this usual kino material for the bike rides.

On Bike kino escalation:
1. At signals casually drop your elbows on to her knees. Do it in a relaxed casual way. Look for compliance and comfort.
2. At next signal use your palms kino her on the knees. Blabber something while doing so.
3. Caressing the knees. Look for compliance and comfort.
4. Escalate caressing to thigh and calves. If you are doing this and the reaction is compliance or neutral. Time to go for a palm lock... kiss her on the back of the palm . And further you can lead her to hug u from the back by taking her hands and wrapping them around yourself.

The above routine is field tested. Results are assured.

Anyways, I couldn't use this routine on her. Shit, she didn't allow me to use the kino material. After about 30 seconds on my bike she hugs me from behind. Ahaaa how romantic. :P.

I escalate further by caressing her arms. Going for palm lock. Pecking her on the back of her palms. Even she is escalating by caressing my chest and touching me on my facing. To which I accuse her of trying to turn me on and I wont be that easy. Woah!! was it a bike ride or a kino ride :P.

The 20 minutes bike ride turned out to be a full hour kino game. I drop her back at her place. She gives me a cute hug and tell me how much she enjoyed the bike ride. Further she pecks on my cheeks for which I was totally unprepared. I was caught off-guard. She waves me a good bye and head inside her house. It didn't even occur to me that I could k-close her. DAMMMNNNNNN!!!! I deserve to be bitch slapped. Whose gonna do it... file your nominations, quick.

2 weeks since that meet up. I don't know whats up with her. Forget calling me... she is reluctant to even pick my calls. The reason being "I am busy", which I totally buy as any stupid looser would buy it. I persisted for about a week... thinking that she is having a huge buyer's remorse for escalating things. But my persistence didn't pay off this time. Or is it the case that "something" happened at the party that she doesn't even consider me in the frame anymore. I know that I shouldn't be expecting any communication from her. Further persisting with her would make me nothing but a wuss-bag. So lets cleanup my cellphone and go fishing.

Oh BTW, actively escalate things to K-Close (and more) as soon as possible. When things are going well in a phase advance to ext phase by assuming that things are 'on'. As my wing PBR puts it "It's better to kiss and lose the girl than not to kiss her at all".


SN : SuLe Nataka (kannada lingo) -> Bitch Games